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by Ruthie Stewart
The bible says: Faith is the evidence of things
hoped for but not yet seen. “The most exciting thing about the
horse industry is that every day can be a life-changing day; it’s
a faith business. You have to have faith. You don’t have to be
religious, that’s not what I mean, but you have to have faith like
the farmer or rancher has faith that it will rain and the crops will
be good. You have to have faith that if you do the right things consistently,
good things will happen,” says Dale Livingston.
Dale was born in Greenville, South Carolina and grew up in Lincoln, Nebraska.
His father, Major Dale Livingston, was in the Air Force and his memories
of his childhood were similar to many of the baby boomers raised in military
families. “I grew up as an air force brat and we were always moving
from place to place,” says Dale.
The Major became disabled and died when Dale was fairly young, so sadly
they never had much of a relationship. Dale ended up as kind of a loner.
He was a city kid and since no one around him had horses his only chance
to get close to them was at the local rent stable and through horse books
like The Black Stallion or My Friend Flicka and every equine magazine
he could get his hands on.
“I just can’t remember not being drawn to horses. I thought all
I needed was a horse and I could ride away from my troubles.” The aroma
of horses, hay and straw, and the smell of leather that only bridles and saddles
have when you walk in the tack room early in the morning were like perfume
to Livingston. “I don't think anything smells as good as that. Trophies
are nice to look at and reminisce about, but they have no aroma that I am aware
of and they only feed your ego, not the senses.”
When he was 13 years-old he started working at a stable that rented horses
for two dollars an hour. Dale was thrilled when the owner of the stables
recognized that he could use someone like him and gave him a job. “I'm
sure that it wasn’t my talent with a horse that convinced him at
the time. I just kept hanging around and asking if I could do this or
that and I didn't care what anyone else thought or said to me.” Including
his family who thought that the barn was a crude place to hang around
and the odors that accompanied it were awful.
“They would ask me, ‘Why do you keep trying to get a job at that
stinking old barn working for that man for almost nothing?’ The pay was
five dollars a day and a normal day was at least 12 hours.” When the
owner told him they didn’t need him or tried to send him home, Dale just
ignored him and came to work again the next day. “As I think back on
it now, I laugh because I know I was a pain in the rear, but I just wanted
to be close to the horses. The owner finally gave in, not because he needed
me, but to get me out of his hair he gave me a job.”
As a young teenager Dale left home and never finished high school. All
he’d ever dreamed of or thought about was training horses and showing
them for a living. “I can't ever remember not loving a horse. I
was consumed by my need to be around them and riding them at every opportunity
I could find. Maybe it is because, in this land that is known for liberty
and freedom, there is no greater feeling of freedom to me than on the
back of a good horse.”
Persistence is another attribute Dale has in spades. He lives by the
creeds, “Just don't quit; don't give up; hang in there; winners
don't quit; and try again. He says triumph isn’t as much about
our talent as it is TRY - combined with some UMPH, or plain old persistence.
Melinda and Dale Livingston met while Dale was working for E.B. Gee Quar-ter
Horses in Arkansas in 1982. At the time, admits Dale, the two had nothing
in common but she was the one for him. “She is my soulmate and
until I met Melinda I never > > |